yes--I know---this is fairly cryptic---but its my blog and I can crypt if I want to.
what is disappointment and how do you avoid it? not really a rhetorical question---- the pessimist in me says "lower your expectations, you will never be disappointed"---the optimist in me says "readjust what you thought was the optimal result---and you wont be disappointed---just see new options"---the control-freak in me says "if you work hard enough you can plow thru and power thru anything and have it happen the way you think it should"---the realist in me says "whatever" (maybe that is more the fatalist)---the mom in me says "dont you see the bus coming? get out of the street!".
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