tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493877770929435976.post7782371241457610097..comments2023-10-26T02:57:46.236-05:00Comments on The world according to Merf: even after 30 years----you still remember....Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13464222251599480034noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493877770929435976.post-72772497068352588842011-10-19T00:02:21.667-05:002011-10-19T00:02:21.667-05:00I know my mom said she learned SO much of what to ...I know my mom said she learned SO much of what to say---and what not to say---by watching our experience---and she realized that she needed to be more careful and thoughtful about the words she said regarding a couples "family planning".Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13464222251599480034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493877770929435976.post-52733048441773670472011-10-18T19:02:37.408-05:002011-10-18T19:02:37.408-05:00Unfortunately Lyric, we all misstep on many subjec...Unfortunately Lyric, we all misstep on many subjects. While I can't say what it is like to never have a child, I can say what it is like to lose one before it is born, I can say what it is like to lose a mother and a father, but not a brother or sister...I can say what it's like to have a bad marriage, but not a bad divorce...and so on, we can only go by what we know and pray that when we misstep those who we have offended will forgive us our ignorance. I can feel the pain in this womans heart and heart pain I can understand.Piter and Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10640245826240084568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8493877770929435976.post-3873266795698107012011-10-18T15:23:55.696-05:002011-10-18T15:23:55.696-05:00She said it so eloquently. There was something in ...She said it so eloquently. There was something in there that helped me to see that maybe I have misstepped a few times when speaking to friends who are struggling with infertility. It made so much sense the way she said that infertility is so much more than not having a baby in your arms. What an interesting thing for her to write about when she is getting ready to have another baby herself---I think it really speaks to how intensely this struggle weighs upon someone.Lyrichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02748575835142428869noreply@blogger.com